Chad Wilson
August 6, 2025
As a parent of a young defensive back, you don’t need to know every coverage call or technique term to be a valuable part of your child’s football journey. In fact, your support off the field can make just as much of an impact as any coach or trainer.
If your child is serious about playing cornerback or safety, there are a few key skills that separate average DBs from great ones. The good news? You don’t need a whistle or a chalkboard to help your child develop these — just time, support, and a little bit of structure.
Let’s break down the most important traits for defensive backs and how parents can help build them.
1. Footwork & Agility
Why it matters: DBs rely on quick, precise movement to mirror wide receivers and change direction on a dime.
How you can help:
- Encourage your child to spend time doing ladder drills, cone drills, or jump rope a few times per week.
- Set up quick backyard workouts that involve shuffling, backpedaling, and turning — even 10–15 minutes goes a long way.
- Look into a local speed and agility program during the offseason.
2. Eye Discipline & Focus
Why it matters: Defensive backs must read the quarterback, track receivers, and stay locked in under pressure.
How you can help:
- Film your child’s games or 7v7 reps so they can study their eye placement and reaction times.
- Help them watch college or NFL DBs and talk through what they’re seeing.
- Limit distractions when it’s time to focus on homework, film, or training — focus is a muscle.
3. Football IQ & Situational Awareness
Why it matters: Great DBs know what to expect based on down, distance, formation, and receiver alignment.
How you can help:
- Ask questions like: “What was the down and distance on that play?” or “What route did he run?”
- Encourage your child to study coverages and route trees (resources like our All Eyes DB Camp Member’s Area can help).
- Turn watching football on Sundays into a learning opportunity.
4. Strength & Physicality
Why it matters: Whether it’s pressing at the line or making tackles, DBs need strength to compete.
How you can help:
- Make sure your child is fueling their body with enough food and water.
- Support consistent strength training, especially during the offseason.
- Focus on bodyweight strength first (push-ups, pull-ups, squats) before heavy lifting if they’re younger.
5. Confidence & Resilience
Why it matters: DBs will get beat sometimes — the key is how quickly they bounce back.
How you can help:
- After a tough game, don’t criticize — ask, “What did you learn?” or “What would you do differently next time?”
- Celebrate effort and improvement, not just stats.
- Remind them that even NFL DBs get beat — the best learn and move on.
Final Thoughts
Becoming a great DB takes time, effort, and the right mindset — but your support as a parent can make all the difference. Whether it’s encouraging film study, helping them stay consistent with workouts, or simply being a voice of belief after a tough game, your presence matters.
If you’re looking for a clear, easy-to-follow guide that breaks down the fundamentals of playing defensive back — from technique to mindset — check out my book 101 DB Tips.
It’s written for players of all levels, and it’s the perfect starting point for parents who want to better understand the position and how to support their athlete.
Grab your copy here: 101dbtips.com
Let’s build smarter, sharper defensive backs — one tip at a time.
Let’s keep sharpening the tools — together.
Chad Wilson is the owner of All Eyes DB Camp and author of "101 DB Tips". He played college football at the University of Miami and briefly in the NFL for the Seattle Seahawks. Over his 15 year high school football coaching career, he tutored over a dozen Division I defensive backs and as a trainer has worked with NFL All Pros, first round draft picks, college football All Americans and Top 10 ranked high school football prospects.
